How to escape the roommate phase with your partner

It's great that you're looking for ways to transition from the roommate phase to a deeper connection with your partner again. Building and rebuilding a strong and meaningful relationship requires open communication, understanding, and shared experiences. Here are a few suggestions to help you navigate:

1. Open up about your feelings: Start by having an honest conversation with your partner about your desire to deepen your connection again. You might have felt this “off” feeling for awhile, as so many relationships do when life gets busy & hectic. Share your thoughts, emotions, and aspirations for the relationship. Encourage your partner to express their feelings as well.

2. Quality time together: Make an effort to spend quality time together, engaging in activities that you both enjoy. This could involve going on dates, exploring new hobbies, or simply having meaningful conversations. By creating shared experiences, you can strengthen your bond and move out of that roommate dynamic.

3. Emotional intimacy: Foster emotional intimacy by actively listening to your partner, showing empathy, and being supportive. Share your vulnerabilities and encourage your partner to do the same. This will help create a deeper emotional connection between you both.

4. Prioritize romance and affection: Keep the romance alive by expressing affection and appreciation for your partner. Small gestures like surprise dates, thoughtful gifts, or even a heartfelt compliment can go a long way in nurturing a romantic connection.

5. Collaborate on future plans: Discuss your long-term goals and aspirations together. By aligning your visions for the future, you can create a sense of partnership and work towards shared objectives. This can help solidify your commitment to each other beyond the roommate phase. Remember, every relationship is unique, and it's important to respect each other's boundaries and pace.

If you find it challenging to navigate this transition on your own, make sure to check out my NEWWW 4 Weeks to Better Sex Guide and Workbook. This is perfect for the couple that’s trying to get back to sex, get back to feeling the romance and passion, and just overall wants to have a closer connection to their partner! You don’t have to feel like you’re stuck in the roommate phase forever I promise! :)